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May 31, 2025 Bryn Hazell
Graffiti on brick wall: "Everything has beauty but not everyone can see it."

Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash

I worked in television news for more than 20 years. … In the ‘80s, TV news changed because ratings and money, rather than public service, came into fashion. “If it bleeds, it leads” became prominent. That meant accidents, conflicts, and shootings now led the news because TV consultants suggested more people would watch the station with the most dramatic stories. … The consultants were right. Drama and conflict won out. …

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In article Tags compassion, feelings, needs, gratitude, beauty, pausing, observation, connection, fear, community
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Farewell 2024 & Welcome 2025!

December 28, 2024 CCL
Two hands holding sparklers against dusk sky

Photo by Ian Schneider on Unsplash

The arrival of a new year is often a time for looking ahead: making resolutions, identifying needs or values to live by, choosing theme words to give focus, and planning for activities and trips we want to make happen. I intend to do a few of these and enjoy envisioning my life in a larger context than the day-to-day.

I’ve also been thinking back on this year and recalling meaningful events. … Life flies by and many important moments can be forgotten. At 75, I’m very aware of this! I invite you to look back on the year and pick out experiences you want to carry with you. …

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In article Tags compassion, hope, feelings, needs, empathy, gratitude, beauty, pausing, doable, connection, self, aging, listening, curiosity, observation
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Responding rather than Reacting

February 20, 2023 CCL
B&W photo: hand blocking camera, "go away"

Photo by Philbo on Unsplash

This post is part of our weekly series of peacemaking practices during the Season of Nonviolence.

What if someone says something that sparks an immediate emotional response and before any thinking or reflection, you fire back a judgment or an attack in reaction to what they’ve said? Just like that there can be a flurry of words that end in hurt, anger, and disconnection. Haven’t we all been there? …

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In article Tags season-nonviolence, judgment, reaction, disconnection, pausing
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Creating Space in Your Life

February 6, 2023 CCL
BW photo: Man in old-fashioned dress looking at watch, rushing away from door with suitcase

Photo by Christopher Luther on Unsplash

This post is part of our weekly series of peacemaking practices during the Season of Nonviolence.

How do you manage your day? If you have a habit of over-scheduling or leaving “just enough time” to get where you are going, you might find yourself feeling stressed and nervous as you rush through your day, harried and harassed. If there is someone driving slowly or there is more traffic than usual or you come upon a construction project, you might find yourself angry at each delay, and you arrive at your meeting in a state of anxiety and frustration, irritated with the world.

How about choosing to start a habit that allows you to move through life with more calm and with the ability to show up as your better self? …

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In article Tags season-nonviolence, kindness, love, calm, peace, pausing, control, habit
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